Wife to help in times of depression(The last chapter)

So to help spouse with depression and thus, heat up your life will recommend observing the following points:
- Values ​​and respects their abilities and let your partner know. If it is art, it is not only appreciated, but also areas provide the opportunity to update the art will be on display and benefit others.

Because the distance between the "status quo" and "ideal situation" is problematic, with increased levels of partner status quo maximize his abilities. Nothing to foster growth and self-esteem is more efficient to achieve real success.

One of the components of the physical properties of self-worth and self-acceptance, and there is seemingly coming from. Face and body beauty and fitness partner to remind him and of course they look the way exaggerated

In his work, especially in matters of common life Discuss with your partner and get his opinion. Opposition vote if the wife is a logic reasoning, a problem does, however, did not consult with him or vilified and humiliated comment the ugly and uncomfortable.

The differences come into his work - which are clearly visible change - gave us, not to the elements of his personality is relatively stable. Note that in addition to focusing on specific problems and minor bug fixes as well as a way to share with him.

Depressed people are often radical feelings and perceptions. Your partner may say things that you think is wrong and unfair, in terms of an argument with her and try to prove him to avoid or to say it is not bad He is good life.

This attitude can cause you not to talk to other, more lonely and depressed him even tightening. Depressed when your spouse says, "I do not think anyone in this world." Instead of remembering where you have to pay attention, you can tell this statement, "It is very sad that you feel, think What can you do when you feel better? "

In connection with the depressed person may feel like you spend a lot of energy, but can not get an answer, or do a lot of dedication, but the other person does not pay attention to your emotional needs are not considered.

If your tolerance and patience is all you have, do not think you're a bad guy or not faithful spouse, if your spouse will not feel bored and do not want to see her again,
It is better to get counseling before deteriorating.

If you do not take action at the beginning of the creation of such feelings may soon feel like you've reached a dead end and continue to be below

Accept that you can not move but he depressed spouse alone the love, attention and support you need. It pays special attention to your partner helps to take steps to recover, but it will not cure. Do not expect your spouse because of her love and kindness you have shown

Depression wiped out or because it does not interest you, get well, she leads. What is your attention and affection towards your partner helps her understand and try to save it earlier than the disease.

A basic solution
Maybe nothing to soothe people can take the place of religion and God. Research has also shown that people who are more religious are less depressed and are at risk for a more rapid recovery. But in addition to that religion and spirituality can help your spouse is depressed, you can also take advantage of this. Do not forget to remember God and that only God could not calm the heart.